Abuelos
Nikon DX (18-55mm)
August 2015
I felt as if I were stepping back in time. It had been almost eight years since I had walked into my grandparents home in Buenos Aires, Argentina. While each book had kept its place, the reporter repeated the same news from the TV in the kitchen, and the tea seemed to be perpetually set at the table, there was a fragility in the house that I hadn't sensed on my last visit. The winding trail from the entrance to the back door was more defined. If I looked hard enough I swore I could almost see three tracks set in the floor tiles; one from shuffeling feet, and the other two from the walker's wheels. My grandfather still drank out of the same mug with the large J printed in black, but the handle was missing and a long crack ran along its side. There were more labeled bottles on my grandmother's bedside table.
Much like the country of Argentina, my grandparent's home remains fixed in the time of its greatness. The only dynamic process is that of a slow and graceful decay that can only be perceived upon close inspection.
Together they had overcome the daily incomprehension, the instantaneous hatred, the reciprocal nastiness, and fabulous flashes of glory in the conjugal conspiracy. It was time when they both loved each other best, without hurry or excess, when both were most conscious of and grateful for their incredible victories over adversity. Life would still present them with other moral trials, of course, but that no longer mattered: they were on the other shore.
Love in the Time of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez